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by Lillith
Sat Aug 03, 2024 6:21 am
Forum: About us
Topic: Rebuilding after leaving CF
Replies: 13
Views: 10551

Re: Rebuilding after leaving CF

I AM THRILLED FOR YOU BF !!!
Enjoy these moments fully as a lovely gift, with yes, your healthy level of pride 😊
by Lillith
Sat Jul 13, 2024 9:28 pm
Forum: What is spiritual abuse?
Topic: From my soul to yours, dear survivors
Replies: 3
Views: 2572

Re: From my soul to yours, dear survivors

Please thank your dear wife, BF. This is my second reading, and it still brings a lump to my throat. I can imagine what loving support she has been and continues to be for you. Her first hand experience of your trauma because of the treatment you have received from the church and still do endure fro...
by Lillith
Fri Jul 05, 2024 12:41 pm
Forum: About us
Topic: Rebuilding after leaving CF
Replies: 13
Views: 10551

Re: Rebuilding after leaving CF

I’m so thrilled for you BF!!
I think it’s a very big step you made, and congratulations for your assertiveness!
I m sure that was indicative of you overcoming self-doubt and accusing voices- so an encouragement to all here.
by Lillith
Tue Jun 04, 2024 4:14 pm
Forum: Shunning and Isolation
Topic: Shunning
Replies: 24
Views: 58333

Re: Shunning

This is the gospel Helen! Beautifully said ☺️
I am so glad you are being embraced by such a genuinely loving community who are helping to confirm and establish you in the truth about the nature and essence of God.

(What wicked lies you’re having to cast off)
by Lillith
Sat Jun 01, 2024 6:58 pm
Forum: Doctrine and Teaching
Topic: Cutting off families
Replies: 11
Views: 4850

Re: Cutting off families

Just to be clear -in my point number 2.( prev post),
I mean “hating” =prioritizing listening to and following Gods voice, over the voices of our families who will be the first to want to “correct us” to VH’s teachings.
by Lillith
Sat Jun 01, 2024 6:10 pm
Forum: Doctrine and Teaching
Topic: Cutting off families
Replies: 11
Views: 4850

Re: Cutting off families

I am so sorry to hear of this wicked cutting off, guest. Some thoughts: 1. I too would recommend the sermon you mentioned. I concur with his interpretation re “hating mother and father” etc 2.Interestingly the same incident - in Mark 3:21, gives a backstory! His family thought he had gone mad and wa...
by Lillith
Wed May 29, 2024 11:12 am
Forum: West Lakes Christian Fellowship
Topic: What is happening in the Adelaide Fellowship? (Westlakes Christian Fellowship)
Replies: 61
Views: 95997

Re: What is happening in the Adelaide Fellowship? (Westlakes Christian Fellowship)

Does anyone know what is currently happening in the Adelaide Fellowship?
by Lillith
Sat May 25, 2024 10:08 am
Forum: What is spiritual abuse?
Topic: Guilt and Shame
Replies: 11
Views: 5659

Re: Guilt and Shame

Wonderful posts on this thread, thank you all. I feel I must recommend the book that BF shared - cPTSD by Pete Walker. I just finished the audiobook. I would recommend it for all XCFers! It’s written for lay people, by a therapist who’s also healing his own abuse /abandonment. You can access many ar...
by Lillith
Fri May 24, 2024 10:11 am
Forum: About us
Topic: Troubleshooting
Replies: 10
Views: 56501

Re: Troubleshooting

…But then there’s also getting admittance from the administrator
by Lillith
Fri May 24, 2024 9:57 am
Forum: About us
Topic: Troubleshooting
Replies: 10
Views: 56501

Re: Troubleshooting

Yes please I second that!
We’ve had some great contributions from “guest” “different guest here”, “guest 2” etc.
It’s confusing as well as unwelcoming and disrespectful.
I do agree with a vouching system.
Breakfree would you /others be up for being a point of contact to vet enquirers?