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by Lillith
Sun Mar 17, 2024 9:28 pm
Forum: Library
Topic: The Impact of Cults on Childhood Development
Replies: 12
Views: 15831

Re: The Impact of Cults on Childhood Development

Thank you Dexter. A harrowing read, with denials and gaslighting from a narcissistic father, who apparently didn’t physically assault his daughter, but did psychologically abuse with his rages and control. On the subject of bringing up children: I was explicitly taught in the ladies meetings, to sma...
by Lillith
Wed Feb 21, 2024 3:52 pm
Forum: What is spiritual abuse?
Topic: A passage that describes spiritual abuse
Replies: 11
Views: 8333

Re: A passage that describes spiritual abuse

Yes Dexter that passage stood out to me too! Also the need to give a parting salvo to the one who’s leaving is something “gifted” to most of us. In her case it was milder than what many of us experienced - “Well at least God never quits on us!” I’m glad you brought up the point about your friends wh...
by Lillith
Sun Feb 18, 2024 3:34 pm
Forum: What is spiritual abuse?
Topic: A passage that describes spiritual abuse
Replies: 11
Views: 8333

Re: A passage that describes spiritual abuse

Here’s quite a lengthy article, one which I found describes some of the subtle mechanisms the writer experienced in her six month intensive commitment to the ywam training program. There are so many similar mechanisms used in the CF churches. (Please note, I’m not meaning this post to be centered on...
by Lillith
Sat Feb 03, 2024 11:35 am
Forum: Doctrine and Teaching
Topic: Water Baptism at the Christian Fellowship
Replies: 10
Views: 8414

Re: Water Baptism at the Christian Fellowship

Some people are wanting “certainty”.

But I for one, don’t outsource my thinking!
by Lillith
Thu Feb 01, 2024 9:56 am
Forum: Shunning and Isolation
Topic: Contact with Family still in CF
Replies: 18
Views: 11550

Re: Contact with Family still in CF

Thank you Breakfree and Faith Hopegood. Yes, the CF teaching is deliberately and unapologetically putting people into a perpetual state of fear. A literalistic reading of the OT’s narrative of “God’s wrath” sets them up for a retributive reading of the gospel. They base the Fear of God on a fear of ...
by Lillith
Sat Jan 20, 2024 10:37 pm
Forum: Shunning and Isolation
Topic: THE GOD WHO SEES
Replies: 18
Views: 9247

Re: THE GOD WHO SEES

Oh and also, I recommend “The Chosen” series.
In the context of this thread, I found episode one to be so healing.
To be seen by Jesus…
to be known by Jesus…
to be named by Jesus

…so wonderful
by Lillith
Sat Jan 20, 2024 10:32 pm
Forum: Shunning and Isolation
Topic: THE GOD WHO SEES
Replies: 18
Views: 9247

Re: THE GOD WHO SEES

I’m sorry to hear of your experience Stargazer. Shunning is so very wrong. It’s unhealthy. It’s evil. They are taught to feel betrayed by us. They are taught not to ask us why we left/were told to leave. They’re threatened that they could be persuaded by us - “the liars”. Those who are brave enough ...
by Lillith
Wed Jan 17, 2024 1:07 pm
Forum: What is spiritual abuse?
Topic: The Insidious Harm of Spiritual Abuse
Replies: 15
Views: 29083

Re: The Insidious Harm of Spiritual Abuse

Thank you very much Breakfree, Guest and Dexter for this thread! I HIGHLY recommend the YouTube video that Dexter shared above! I have long wanted to see a post about the abuse of the scripture - “Obey your leaders…” - Heb 13:17 This scripture was quoted monthly if not more often in the year before ...
by Lillith
Sun Jan 14, 2024 11:42 am
Forum: Library
Topic: Theological Beatitudes
Replies: 2
Views: 5098

Theological Beatitudes

Blessed are the theologically homeless, for they do not find rest until God is all in all. Blessed are those theology spills from a pierced heart, for they are the consolation of God to God. Blessed are those who never confuse their own voice for God’s, for they can be trusted with their neighbour’s...
by Lillith
Tue Jan 09, 2024 12:07 pm
Forum: Library
Topic: Bill Johnson and the Bethel Movement
Replies: 7
Views: 32425

Re: Bill Johnson and the Bethel Movement

My original post was to highlight my surprise at Vic confessing he did not know about the NAR and Bill Johnson of Bethel in Redding, and what that said to me about his isolated position. Thank you guest for your thoughtful encouragement to be careful in what we share. Right on! When I originally loo...