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by Lillith
Mon Dec 11, 2023 7:45 pm
Forum: Shunning and Isolation
Topic: Grace and Mercy
Replies: 1
Views: 20645

Re: Grace and Mercy

Dear me
So beautiful Helen
Warmest love and hugs to you and to all who are feeling the pain of estrangement.
May we all know Gods neverfailing love encompass us about
xxoo Lillith
by Lillith
Fri Dec 08, 2023 6:36 pm
Forum: Library
Topic: Churches that Abuse by Ronald M Enroth
Replies: 9
Views: 48447

Re: Churches that Abuse by Ronald M Enroth

Many thanks, Gillie for taking the time to post here!
I’ve looked up your blog too.
And yes, these characteristics ring true of the CF.
I want to keep your contributions in the current dialogue.
Blessings
Lillith
by Lillith
Sat Dec 02, 2023 3:19 am
Forum: Library
Topic: The theology of 'planting'
Replies: 17
Views: 43928

Re: The theology of 'planting'

Hello guest 1 and welcome! Guest 2 I loved your comments and your care. I had that line about being planted at BCF used on me too. I googled it, looked in the concordance and could find no biblical reference. “ Those that be planted in the house of the Lord…” in Psalm 92 cannot mean a particular NT ...
by Lillith
Fri Dec 01, 2023 7:36 am
Forum: Shunning and Isolation
Topic: ongoing rejection
Replies: 20
Views: 75453

Re: ongoing rejection

* sowing 😊
by Lillith
Fri Dec 01, 2023 7:31 am
Forum: Shunning and Isolation
Topic: ongoing rejection
Replies: 20
Views: 75453

Re: ongoing rejection

My heart goes out to Breakfree, Dexter, Helen and others who’re suffering from rejection. These wounds will never go away. I am working towards “a healing that is not about getting rid of the pain, but a healing which is the capacity to hold pain” - Gabor Mate. Friends of decades have shunned me. Fo...
by Lillith
Thu Nov 30, 2023 3:11 pm
Forum: General ...
Topic: BCF C’n school teachers & students’ exodus
Replies: 19
Views: 57201

Re: BCF C’n school teachers & students’ exodus

I was told this by an ex CFer, not a current one. However a current CFer did say that it was passed onto them that children and parents are telling BCFers at Christian schools, that BCF is evil and they should come over to their church. Never mind that Vic Hall constantly puts down other churches an...
by Lillith
Sat Oct 21, 2023 4:45 pm
Forum: General ...
Topic: BCF C’n school teachers & students’ exodus
Replies: 19
Views: 57201

Re: BCF C’n school teachers & students’ exodus

Thanks Faith Hopegood, I appreciated hearing your perspective. Christian Schools, like schools of any kind, can be a mixed bunch. We are aware that there are children who have been treated harshly or even been horrifically abused in these institutions, and to you dear folk, go our heartfelt thoughts...
by Lillith
Sun Oct 08, 2023 9:12 pm
Forum: General ...
Topic: A Call to Pray
Replies: 3
Views: 12180

Re: A Call to Pray

A wonderful idea, guest - “a bond of love for those still trapped”. And that bond will also uplift all of those of us who still have family still under the spell. I know I feel supported by this Forum group, to keep believing in the power of showing Gods self giving, radically forgiving love to thos...
by Lillith
Sun Oct 08, 2023 8:28 am
Forum: General ...
Topic: BCF C’n school teachers & students’ exodus
Replies: 19
Views: 57201

Re: BCF C’n school teachers & students’ exodus

Well put, guest.
Spot on. Sooo many red flags.
Please, dear CF people, praying that you wake up to the cognitive dissonance and come out from under the spell.
by Lillith
Sun Oct 08, 2023 6:58 am
Forum: General ...
Topic: BCF C’n school teachers & students’ exodus
Replies: 19
Views: 57201

Re: BCF C’n school teachers & students’ exodus

I think it’s a case of if you know a BCF teacher who worked in a Christian school, then in all likelihood, they’ve resigned. Think of Northside (attached to Nexus Church where many BCF families have moved to), and Genesis. I know of one family who LOVED Northside and the mother works in the school o...